- There is a stereo type for fat people
- o Diets and weight are main topics of conversation /70% of converstions between women about weight
· However times and ideas are changing
· A recent poll shows men like fatty women over slim
· Eating disorders and mental distress is a major issue among people who find eating a problem
· However fashion changes – now all shapes have become acceptable
· The fashion industry are not not concerned with people but are concerned with making money
· Feeling great about being fat takes a lot of time and training
· Dieting is a way of keeping slim – but she is not prepared to diet to such an extreme. She imagines fantasising about food while being with a lover
· Therefore she ate when she wanted and enjoyed herself.
· Fat makes you age slower – fine skin, no spots
· Fat women have large breasts – considered very attractive - avoid going to outsize shops
· Insecure men are attracted to slim women
· Real men like shape
· Sometimes the physical details of having sex can be awkward but not insurmountable
· As you like yourself more you look after yourself more
· Fat women look good in make-up
· Don’t buy clothes from ERvans Outsize.
· There is a huge range of clothes now available
· She has browsed maternity shops
· There are exotic materials available – Indian in markets – make your own clothes
· Practice and enjoy these clothes – perform in public
· Use props to enhance and encourage yourself – like cigarette holders
· But other women can be a problem – their implied criticism
· Other women need to know love and attraction is not a physical thing – its spiritual
· But being fat gives you high blood pressure. Fat people die early.
· Concerning exercise – apparently an orgasm uses as much energy as a five mile run
